Hi all, long time no see, I knowww :P

This was taken from the famous personality test, Myers-Briggs, I'm a Provider. ahaha.

Providers take it upon themselves to insure the health and welfare of those in their care, but they are also the most sociable of all the Guardians, and thus are the great nurturers of social institutions such as schools, churches, social clubs, and civic groups. Providers are very likely more than ten percent of the population, and this is fortunate for the rest of us, because friendly social service is a key to their nature. Wherever they go, Providers happily give their time and energy to make sure that the needs of others are met, and that social functions are a success.

Highly cooperative themselves, Providers are skilled in maintaining teamwork among their helpers, and are also tireless in their attention to the details of furnishing goods and services. They make excellent chairpersons in charge of dances, banquets, class reunions, charity fund-raisers, and the like. They are without peer as masters of ceremonies, able to speak publicly with ease and confidence. And they are outstanding hosts or hostesses, knowing everyone by name, and seemingly aware of what everyone's been doing. Providers love to entertain, and are always concerned about the needs of their guests, wanting to make sure that all are involved and provided for.

Friendly, outgoing, neighborly - in a word, Providers are gregarious, so much so that they can become restless when isolated from people. They love to talk with others, and will often strike up a conversation with strangers and chat pleasantly about any topic that comes to mind. Friendships matter a great deal to Providers, and their conversations with friends often touch on good times from years past. Family traditions are also sacred to them, and they carefully observe birthdays and anniversaries. In addition, Providers show a delightful fascination with news of their friends and neighbors. If we wish to know what's been going on in the local community, school, or church, they're happy to fill us in on all the details.

Providers are extremely sensitive to the feelings of others, which makes them perhaps the most sympathetic of all the types, but which also leaves them somewhat self-conscious, that is, highly sensitive to what others think of them. Loving and affectionate themselves, they need to be loved in return. In fact, Providers can be crushed by personal criticism, and are happiest when given ample appreciation both for themselves personally and for the tireless service they give to others.

I agree with it, what about u guys?

till next time,denise ;
Thursday, September 02, 2010;

1. I’ve been waiting my whole life for the right guy to come along and then you showed up. And you are nothing like the man I imagined. You’re cynical, and cranky, and impossible. But the truth is, fighting with you is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. And I think there’s a very good chance that I’m falling in love with you - 27 Dresses

2. I have found that if you love life, life will love you back - Arthur Rubenstein

3. You gotta love you, even if you’re a total screw-up - The Mentalist

4. But sometimes, when you least expect it, life surprises you - When it Happens

5. You either know fashion or you don’t. Anna Wintour, editor in chief of American Vogue

till next time,denise ;
Thursday, April 22, 2010;

Some people have nothing better to do. Here are eaxmples:

Bizarre Traveler Behavior
Security officials at borders and airports see some strange things. How strange? Let us count the ways.

By Brad Tuttle, Budget Travel

A cold-blooded crime
A California man returned from Australia with 11 skinks, 2 monitor lizards, and 2 geckos — all of them strapped to his chest. By our count, that's 15 more lizards than you're legally allowed to attach to your torso and bring into the country. Officials nabbed him at Los Angeles International Airport with the illicit reptiles, which were worth more than $8,500 to exotic-animal collectors.

Don't point that at me!
After passing through security gates at the Baltimore-Washington airport, a man took off running to the nearest restroom — barefoot, not even taking the time to put his shoes back on after walking through the X-ray machines. When security officials caught up with him, they discovered that he had hidden a can of Mace pepper spray in his body cavity. No word yet on what he was trying to protect himself from — or how he intended to take aim.

Taking it from the streets
After a visit to Boston, a tourist flying out of Logan Airport was stopped by TSA agents who discovered a massive, 15-pound piece of cobblestone in the passenger's carry-on luggage. The passenger explained that he'd picked up the loose chunk near the Union Oyster House and wanted to bring it home because it looked so historic. A TSA agent on the scene replied, "For crying out loud, if every visitor did that, we'd have no more history!"

Please don't flirt with the septuagenarians
A 71-year-old woman was arrested and charged with carrying a concealed weapon after she attempted to get through airport security in Tampa with a small leather club known as a blackjack. When asked why she had the item, the confident passenger replied, "To smack men's hands when they get fresh."

Smells like sausage, looks like …A 21-year-old woman received a $300fine after she was caught smuggling 5.5 pounds of chorizo from Mexico into the U.S. She had safely stowed the brown pork sausage in baby diapers for the trip. Take this tale into consideration the next time you're thinking of buying black-market chorizo: You really don't know where it's been.

Is that a monkey in your pants, or …
Actually, it was two live pygmy monkeys, smuggled into LAX in the pants of a California man. He also carried what amounted to an entire biodiversity exhibit, including four exotic birds and 50 rare orchids he had taken from Indonesia. How was he caught? During an inspection in L.A., a bird hopped out of his bag and flew around the terminal. The man, who claimed to be a concerned environmentalist hoping to deliver his finds to a wildlife sanctuary in Costa Rica, was eventually sentenced to 57 days in jail and fined $15,000. The monkeys were released from the man's pants and sent to more expansive quarters at the Los Angeles Zoo.

It's the dairy, stupid
Something must have smelled fishy — or rather, cheesy. And given the size of the stash, it's no surprise. A man towing a U-Haul across the U.S. border from Mexico was stopped at a traffic checkpoint in Falfurrias, Tex., where agents seized 3,664 pounds of Mexican white cheese (a weight heavier than a Ford Mustang) valued at about $8,000. It's a little excessive, but, hey, people overpack for trips all the time.

An inadvisable response to the "no liquids" rule
Strange incidents aren't limited strictly to U.S. airports, of course. At a security checkpoint in Nürnberg, Germany, agents told a 64-year-old man carrying a liter of vodka that they wouldn't allow the booze in his carry-on. Instead of pouring it out or paying to check the bottle in his luggage, the man promptly dispensed of his problem by chugging it all down. Soon enough, he could neither stand nor function and had to be treated for alcohol poisoning. Which explains the tiny bottles handed out by flight attendants.

Damn bodoh right???? -.- The old lady one can understand lah I guess...lol

till next time,denise ;
Thursday, March 25, 2010;

Amazing quotes:

1. "Make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. If you want to get more out of life, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty." - Jon Krakauer, Into the Wild.

2. Worry less.

3. "Strive for perfection in everything you do. Take the best that exists and make it better. When it does not exist, design it." - Sir Henry Royce

4. "Don’t talk unless you can improve the silence." - Jorge Luis Borges

5. "Life is a storm. You will bask in the sunlight one moment, be shattered on the rocks the next. What makes you a man is what you do when that storm comes. You must look into that storm and shout “Do your worst, for I will do mine!” Then the fates will know you as we know you." - The Count of Monte Cristo

6. "Each second we live is a new and unique moment of the universe, a moment that will never be again. And what do we teach our children? We teach them that two and two make four, and that Paris is the capital of France. When will we also teach them what they are? We should say to each of them: Do you know what you are? You are a marvel. You are unique. In all the years that have passed, there has never been another child like you. Your legs, your arms, your clever fingers, the way you move. You may become a Shakespeare, a Michelangelo, a Beethoven. You have the capacity for anything. Yes, you are a marvel. And when you grow up, can you then harm another who is, like you, a marvel? You must work, we must all work, to make the world worthy of its children." - Pablo Picasso

7. "Somewhere out there, there is someone who is meant to be the love of your life, Your best friend, your soulmate the one you can tell your dreams too, he’ll smile at you when you tell him, but he will never laugh at your heart. he’ll brush the hair out of your eyes & send you flowers when you least expect it. he’ll call you to tell you goodnight right before you go to bed or just because hes thinking about you. he’ll be bursting to talk to you each morning just to hear the sound of your voice. he’ll look into your eyes and tell you that you are the most beautiful girl hes ever seen & for the first time your life, you’ll actually believe it".

8. Too often we are scared. Scared of what we might not be able to do. Scared of what people might think if we tried. We let fears stand in the way of our hopes. We say no when we want to say yes. We sit quietly when we want to scream. And we shout with the others, when we should keep our mouths shut. Why? After all, we do only go around once. There’s really no time to be afraid. Sometimes, you just have to stop thinking so much. If it feels right, it probably is. Just go with it.

9. In your life you meet many people. Some you never think about again. Some you wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you, and then there are some you wish you never had to think about again… but you do.

10. Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn’t let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can’t outrun it and life always makes more.

till next time,denise ;
Monday, March 15, 2010;

MY TYPE OF GUY :P

1. brown hair | black hair | blonde hair | red hair

2. tall | short | same height as you

3. ear piercings | eyebrow piercings | snake bites | no piercings | other

4. tattoos | no tattoos | idgaf (whaa????)

5. skater | punk | player | indie | cowboy | musician | prep | jock | other
6. shy | outgoing | in between

7. mellow | hyper | loud | quiet

8. blue eyes | brown eyes | green eyes | doesn’t matter

9. wears tight jeans | wears normal jeans | other

10. converse | vans | nikes | skate shoes | other

11. listens to: metal | rap | indie | classic rock | pop | country | all | other

12. compliments a lot | compliments when necessary | rarely compliments

13. jokes around all the time | jokes when necessary | always serious

14. sensitive | hides emotion | acts tough

15. hobbies: computer | music | skating | sports | drawing | fishing | other

16. loves to hold | loves to be held

17. tons of muscles | fit | skinny | chubby

18. pale | average | tan | dark

19. cusses a lot | never cusses | moderately cusses | only cusses around friends who even gives a shit

20. wavy hair | curly hair | straight hair | long hair | longish hair | short hair


So now you know :P

till next time,denise ;
Tuesday, March 02, 2010;

Before I start on more serious updates, here's something for light reading. Well, its a game actually. Its called Screw, Shoot or Marry. My brother, Kenneth/Ken, introduced me to this game, which is usually more fun if done verbally and in a group of two people or more. I don't know about you guys, but when I play this game with the brother, he'll give me such either too weird or too ugly people that it gets so uncomfortable for me to tell him my choice. Then we'll laugh about it non-stop. Some of you might have played this before, but since I love the game, Imma play it with you here, sound good? :)

Basically the rules are pretty self-explanatory, I'll list down three people/cartoon characters/celebrities, then you gotta choose one person to screw, one person to shoot AND one person to marry. No cheating, all three people have to be put into one category.

Example:

1. Who would you Screw, Shoot or Marry?
a) Donald Duck
b) Spongebob
c) Tiger Woods (LOL!)

D's choice: (LOL, get ready to LMAO!) Screw Tiger Woods, shoot Spongebob, and sighs, marry Donald Duck. LOL.

what about u? tell me your choices for each yeah, just for laughs :P


Okay, Round 1:

1. Screw, Shoot or Marry - Patrick Dempsey, the yellow fat DIGI man, or Mawi.
D's choice: Marry Patrick Dempsey, shoot the damn DIGI fella, and eew, screw Mawi I guess? EEW!! LOL.

2. Lady Gaga, Jay-Z, Michael Jackson(pretend he's alive lahh okay)
D's choice: Marry Lady Gaga, shoot MJ(people are gonna kill me) and screw Jay-Z(I'm dead meat in Beyonce's eyes)

3. Amy Winehouse, Mike Myers(Austin Powers/Love Guru actor) or Jack Black
D's choice: shoot Amy, marry Mike Myers, screw Jack Black(eew!)

LOL. fun so far? are you laughing hard yet? okay, just one more, cause I can't seem to think already.

4. Madonna, Prince or Marilyn Manson
D's choice: Shoot Marilyn, screw Prince(gross!), marry Madonna



LOL okay, that's enough laughter for one day.
Btw, Post-Grad, Case 39 and The Stepfather was nice =D

till next time,denise ;
Sunday, January 17, 2010;

Lovely Quotes:

1. I found love. Not in any man. No, I found love in joy. I found love in laughter. I found love in self confidence. I have discovered all the little things in life that add up to the bigger things and I have found love there. Love your life. =)

2. Maybe there are no right answers, no right moments, or right guys. Maybe sometimes you just have to say what's in your heart and hope that gets you through.
(hope this quote delivers when I find a bf someday in the future :P)

3. Rule of Thumb: when there are two choices, take the harder one.

4. When you truly care for someone, you don’t look for faults. You don’t look for answers. You don’t look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes. You accept the faults and you overlook excuses. The measure of love is when you love without measure. There are rare chances that you’ll meet the person you love and who loves you in return. So once you have it, don’t ever let go. The chance might never come your way again. (Imma cry)

5. Just say what you mean and mean what you say. Don't expect someone to read your mind, and don't play games with heads or hearts. Don't tell half truths and expect trust when the full truth comes out. Half truths are no better than lies. Don't be cold to someone you care about, indifference hurts more than angry words.

6. A heart is the strongest thing about you when it's broken. It heals and becomes stronger than you think. All you need is time and the right person to help you put it back together.

7. Once you've got what you want, that's when you've got something to lose, and what's scarier than that?

8. What we do, doesnt define who we are. what defines us is how well we rise after falling.

9. I’m starting to learn you can’t make someone love you.
You can’t make someone be faithful to you.
You can’t control your own fate and sometimes things happen…
some good, some bad, some indifferent.
You just have to let some things go,
close your eyes, and hope they turn out for the best.

10. But some emotions dont make alot of noise. It's hard to hear pride. Caring is real faint like a heart beat and pure love,why somedays its so quiet, you don't even know its there. (Sweet, ain't it?)

11. There are some people in life that make you laugh a little louder, smile a little bigger, and just live a little better. (I love this)

12. We’re only put through as much as we can handle. So, the people who struggle the most have been chosen by God to end up being the strongest people.
(God, please make my struggles in current condition worth it, thank you.)

13. Nothing is as real as a dream. The world can change around you, but your dream will not. Responsibilities need not erase it. Duties need not obscure it. Because the dream is within you, no one can take it away.

14. Beautiful people do not just happen - Elizabeth Kubler Ross

15. People don’t keep journals for themselves,
They keep them for other people;
Like a secret they don’t want to tell,
But they want everyone to know.
(How true, isn't it the reason why we have blogs and regularly update our FB statuses?)

16. Love is like a game of Marco Polo, You hear it calling you But when you think You’re close it goes away.

17. Some things don’t last forever, but some things do. Like a good song, or a good book, or a good memory you can take out && unfold in your darkest times, Pressing down on the corners & peering in close, Hoping you still recognize the person you see there.

18. The best thing about a picture Is that it never changes, Even when the people in it do. (I likee!)

19. Don't let anyone ever make you feel like you don't deserve what you want.

20. I want someone to love me like Jack loved Rose in The Titanic; & like Noah loved Allie In The Notebook. (So veryy sweet)

21. You don’t have to be tough every minute of every day.
It’s okay to let down your guard.
In fact, there’s moments when it’s
The best thing you could possibly do;
as long as you choose those moments wisely.
(I really really need to put this quote into practice!)

22. I love writing quotes
It’s so beautiful to know that
You’re not alone in this messed up world.
It’s relieving to know that
Someone else feels the same way you do.
(ok, in this case, I love posting and finding truly inspiring or beautiful quotes)

23. You’ll never fully understand a quote until you’ve lived it.

24. Never talk yourself out of knowing you’re in love, or into thinking that you are.

25. What happens when the boy holding your hand & the boy holding your heart aren’t the same person?

26. The opposite of love isn’t hate.
It’s indifference. (YES!)
If you hate someone,
You still care.

27. Dear whoever is reading this: You are loved. You are lovely && you are loved. End of story. :)

28. Don’t pity the girl with one true friend. Envy her. Pity the girl with a thousand acquaintances.

29. If you judge people, you have no time to love them - Mother Teresa

30. Sometimes, late at night, it just hits me: this is my life & I can do whatever I want.

31. I’ve learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. (True in every way)

32. I feel like I can say anything I want. They don’t know my past or what I’ve done. They can only judge me on who they are seeing right that second. I’m the person I am now, not then. People I know don’t see the difference.

33. There's nothing like the deep breaths after laughing that hard; Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for all the right reasons.

34. A little jealousy in a relationship is healthy. It`s always nice to know someone`s afraid to lose you. (it's a good sign then??)

35. It’s hard to determine whether you really have feelings for someone
or you are just carried away by the good things he/she does.
You can’t say if you are just returning the love or returning the favor.
(How will I know when my turn comes I wonder??)

36. People say hate is a strong word, but so is love, and people throw that around like it's nothing.

37. I want to love someone whose heart has been broken, so that he knows exactly how it feels and won't break mine. (Awww)

38.Never break four things in your life:
1. Trust
2. Promise
3. Relationship
4. Heart
because when they break they don’t make noise but hurts a lot..

39. Life is too ironic to fully understand. It takes sadness to know what happiness is. Noise to appreciate silence. and absence to value presence.

40. Worry about your character not your reputation,
because your character is who you really are,
and your reputation is simply what others think of you.


Okay, I'm sure not many people will take the time to complete reading all 40 quotes. But if u have the time, please do, as some are powerful, inspirational and beautiful. & most of all, no matter how much u may deny it, deep down in your heart of hearts, u know its true!

So tell me which ones u like/think are true/believe in, so I'll know you just a wee bit more =P

till next time,denise ;
Tuesday, January 05, 2010;